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July 13, 2009: Last Child in the Woods; Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit
Disorder · April 21, 2009: Mutual Respect with Teenagers · April 8, 2009: I Am Not an ATM Machine · July 18, 2006: Toronto Fun Places
Last Child in the Woods; Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit
Disorder by
Richard Louv Algonquin
books of Chapel
Hill /
Thomas Allen & Son, Ltd. Second
Printing 2008 Paperback,
$14.95 U.S. / $19.95 CDN ISBN
- 10:156512605X ISBN
- 13:9781565126053 Louv’s
thesis is that society today is teaching young people to avoid direct
experience with nature. He also contends that such contact with nature is
incredibly beneficial for the mental health and physical health of our youth.
This is especially the case where such exposure is unstructured, letting the
child’s imagination run wild. He then sadly quotes a San Diego fourth grader that he (sadly)
prefers indoor play because “that is where all the electrical outlets are.” Louv’s
book has become a rallying point for a movement concerned that youngsters today
are deprived of contact with nature. Last
Child in the Woods refers to work by Edith Cobb who detailed how many great
people through history and from diverse cultures invariably related how their
inventiveness and creativity came from early exposure to nature. These seem to
be rooted in ecstatic memories requiring space, freedom, discovery and exposure
to all five senses. This is hard to get from a video game… We
are currently dealing with an epidemic of juvenile obesity while concurrently
experiencing the biggest increase in organised sports in history. This suggests
that organised sports might not be what kids are lacking to keep off extra
weight. We are also dealing with an explosion of prescriptions for Ritalin™ and
anti-depressants among youth. There is evidence that obesity, attention
disorders, and depression can all be remedied through early and frequent
exposure to nature. Such exposure is also essential for young people to grow
into adults who appreciate nature and strive to protect it. We rarely
appreciate what we cannot put a name on while kids who capture frogs, fish, and
bugs are likely to know the names of such creatures. Louv
describes a young John Muir as a kid who fashioned a homemade gun and ran along
the beach shooting seagulls. Yet this boy learned about nature and eventually
grew to appreciate it to the point where he may have been the greatest
environmentalist of all time. Muir ultimately founded the Sierra Club and is
largely credited with saving California’s redwood forests and Yosemite Valley. Today the behaviour
young Muir once exhibited is largely discouraged by society. Even
environmentalists are probably to blame, leaving little room for youthful
exuberance in today’s over-regulated parks. Boy Scouts are also moving aware
from hands-on experience with nature, increasingly catering to computer camps
rather than learning about fishing. Louv
looks at the biographies of many famous people through history and notes that
many of them from Claude Monet to Eleanor Roosevelt claimed to be inspired by
nature. But we are becoming increasingly disconnected from nature… Traditionally
seven types of intelligence have been described: linguistic;
logical-mathematical; spatial; bodily kinaesthetic; musical; interpersonal; and
intrapersonal. More recently, naturalist intelligence has also been recognised.
Charles Darwin, John Muir, and Rachel Carson are suggested as being giants in
this field. Louv’s
book sounds an alarm, but is not all doom and gloom. Addressing parents,
teachers, lawyers, and politicians, he gives many prescriptions for how to
reverse the general decline of exposure to nature in today’s young people.
These prescriptions range from planting butterfly gardens to creating nature gyms
to encouraging kids to play in the dirt. His views certainly challenge many
conventional wisdoms, among them about the intrinsic merits of bringing
computers into the classroom and some efforts by such groups as People for the
Ethical Treatment of Animals. During
a recent interview I conducted for an article about fishing with kids, Quebec environmentalist Daniel
Green praised the merits of teaching kids to fish “so that they will notice
when something goes wrong in the environment.” Similarly I hear staff at Montreal’s Ecomuseum say that
kids today know all about tigers and elephants from watching television
documentaries, but may have never seen or touched a frog or snake. Louv, Daniel
Green, and Ecomuseum staff all seem to be singing the same song. There
is a movement afoot to bring author Richard Louv to Montreal, possibly around Earth Day, 2010. JS
July 10, 2009
April 21, 2009 By Michael
Schleifer, Leonie Richler, and Lee Londei The full
title (above) of MUTUAL RESPECT WITH TEENAGERS sums up very well what this book is about. Written by the grandfather of
three youths, this paperback explores many themes of trans-generational
communication. The subject matter is topical because youths today are dealing
with many issues from drugs, to sexuality, to gambling, to anorexia, etc and it
is not always clear how to address these concerns with them. While these issues
are not particularly new, many parents today might be at a loss in knowing how
to discuss them. The intended audience is composed of parents of today’s
adolescents, as well as teachers, psychologists, and others who work with
teenagers and/or their parents. The concepts covered tend to be basic and
introductory. The book
begins with basic issues of morality, such as when we should tell the truth and
when “white lies” might be appropriate. When today’s teenagers ask their mom
or dad to describe her or his own experience with drugs, what is the best way
to respond? How honest should the adult be? Schleifer gives good, common-sense
advice here while bringing forth concepts that many parents probably understood
without knowing the term for it (i.e. asymmetrical respect). The latter term
describes how you can respect your adolescent children while still treating
them differently than you would your adult friends. In other
instances, Schleifer goes against conventional wisdom, suggesting that children
should not be forced to kiss an aunt on the cheek after she has just brought
them a present. The consequences of such an enforced kiss may lead adolescents
to later believe that physical affection is required as a sign of gratitude in
situations of possible sexual innuendo. The book gives other age-appropriate
and gender-appropriate advice for raising teenagers, most particularly in a
North American context. Schleifer,
who is also the author of TALKING ABOUT FEELINGS AND VALUES WITH CHILDREN, has
solid academic credentials to write such books; holding Ph.D.s in both
philosophy and psychology. Schleifer knows the territory and makes appropriate references
to other pertinent titles within the pages of his book, and writes in a way
that is easy to read. But there could be more practical examples of how to
communicate with teenagers, especially in difficult or ambiguous situations. The book’s
extensive index allows for skimming and facilitates the finding of specific
concepts. I recommend this book. ISBN 10:
1550593471 / 1-55059-347-1 ISBN 13:
9781550593471 Publisher:
Detselig Enterprises, Limited Publication
Date: 2007 120 pages Suggested price
$28.95 -
DISCLAIMER:
John does know Michael Schleifer, a fellow author from Montreal.
April 8, 2009 I Am Not an ATM Machine; How Parents Can Regain Control of Their Lives
While Still Loving Their Children by
Phil Clavel Paperback: 160 pages Publisher: Vehicule Press; 1 edition (Sep
20 2006) ISBN-10: 1550652192 Price: $15.95 Some
of you will recognize Clavel’s name as a Montrealer and the author of Dad
Alone: How to Rebuild Your Life and Remain an Involved Father After Divorce. In
I Am Not an ATM Machine, Clavel writes about how to instil in our children a
real sense of financial responsibility. He also speaks of helping parents regain
control of their own lives instead of giving constant handouts to their
children and acting like an automatic teller machine (ATM). Much
of Clavel’s book is based on anecdotes, like the one where a mother always went
to the ATM every time she needed cash, making her kids think that money grew
there like magic. They did not associate the money that came from the ATM with
any work or sacrifice and could only imagine new ways to spend it. This is a
terrible and irresponsible attitude about money and yet that is how many young
people think. The
subject is timely because youths are increasingly the target of marketing
campaigns and they are being convinced that they “need” many things, from fancy
running shoes to cell phones that are really only luxuries. Clavel gives common
sense prescriptions for how do deal with demands for things like cell phones
and iPods. Clavel writes about O.P.M., or “other people’s money” and how using
it can be addictive, almost like opium with which it shares a phonetic
resemblance. Many young people are also lingering around the home, often until
their 30s, before moving out on their own and Clavel gives some prescriptions
here, too. Clavel’s book teaches parents how to love their children and still
be able to say “no” to them. It also advocates leading by example. The
book could be better written, but the message still comes shining through. I
found that reading Clavel’s book increased my awareness of this important issue
and strengthened my resolve to being able to do the right thing for my own
kids. I highly recommend Clavel’s I Am Not an ATM Machine. For those looking for extensive information about family-friendly activities around Toronto, John recommends TORONTO FUN PLACES by Nathalie Prézeau. www.torontofunplaces.com
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